Every one can't be ...

a life guard.  You have to be specially trained to save a drowning person.  Often the victim is so terrified of drowning they will pull you under when you try to save them. 

There are people drowning in their own filth on this earth.  But, before they will admit their wrong doing they will destroy you.  They will try to take you out with them.  "From such stay away."

Do you know why the airlines advise you to put on your air mask first?  In an effort to help others you must save yourself first. Do not assign more value to the life of your nemesis , your albatross.  Don't be fooled by her tears.  They are fake.  She is just trying to save her reputation.  A reputation she really doesn't give a s*** about. She just doesn't want you to win.  "No happiness for you."  You should not have come through her body.  You're the dummy that fell into her clutches.  She is going to make sport of you and destroy you.  She doesn't have or want any better sense.  She is deliberately, consciously, clandestinely, with malice and hatred,  destroying you because she firmly believes you destroyed her life.  She has suffered with this rotting stinking hatred for 86 years.  She is very proud of how well she has kept it hidden.  "You dudh fool!" she laughs.  "I wud nevah be dat no sense-ED!" ; she brags.    Her life would have been wonderful if she had not been saddled with six damn worthless ungrateful "young'uns".  She'll fix you.  She fix every last one of you.  She told you she "ain't admittin' s***!"  "You didn't see me!"  "Serves you right fa' being so d*** dumb!"  You will think twice before you pick her to be your mother.  Serves you right.  You shouldn't be so stupid, so easily fooled.

"bring me my flowers!... while I can yet smell'um! ...uumph...wonder hi many dummies I got left?"